Blaming comes from a center of attention mindset. The focus is on what others are doing to you or what you believe they should be doing for you. In this frame, the universe revolves around you.
You are a center of influence. Everything you think, feel, say and do has a ripple effect. In every conflict you have had, it's not just about what you think the other person did. You had an impact.
When you recognize that you are a center of influence, you become more powerful and at the same time, more humble. You find that you actually can do something to heal the rifts in your relationships.
William Frank Diedrich, Author of Beyond Blaming at
http://noblaming.com
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