No Blaming: Blaming is an excuse not to be ...

Blaming is an excuse not to be powerful, accountable, responsible. The real question is not "Whose fault is it?" The real question is "What impact did I have on it?"  and now that you have assumed responsibility, "What impact could I have? What am I willing to do?"  You can spend a long time waiting for someone else to make things right for you. Without blaming you are powerful.