Choose Who You Will Be

We see the world as a series of causes and effects.  If you blame someone, you see yourself as an effect.

You are the creator of your own experience, so you are cause.

You want to be cause. Cause is the only way you have any power. Take reponsibility for your experience in each and every circumstance. Responsibility, not blame. Own it. Ask yourself: Who am I being?  How does that make me feel? How does it make me act? Is this who you want to be?

You can choose who you will be.

Beyond Blaming, by
William Frank Diedrich
http://noblaming.com