You cannot influence from a place of disconnection. Blaming, criticism, and negativity toward another, disconnects you.
Power is increased when you come from a place of appreciation for others. You appreciate who they are and the gifts they have to offer. You believe in their ability to succeed.
You can still offer constructive feedback as needed, but your underlying intention is one of appreciation and helping the other to grow and succeed. You are not better than, because you see an error. You are one human helping another, knowing that at any given moment, it may be you who needs the help.
William Frank Diedrich
Beyond Blaming, found at
http://intelligentspirit.com/catalog.html
Also available in e-book at Amazon Kindle and Barnes and Noble Nook.
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